Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Rude rude rude!!!

How is it that a man can change your whole mood in the blink of an eye, I just went from happy to pissed off in a matter of seconds !

I kept thinking over this the whole day and still couldn't come up with an answer. All this contemplation was result of a normal chat session going from "hi" to "oye" thn to "i noe wt u r doin" and ending up in "f***k off". 

Chat friends are always fun unless and until they become too compulsive about you revealing your personal things like wrz ur HOME, wtz ur MOB NO., do u hv a BF? I want to see your PICTURE, I want to hear your VOICE, can v MEET? and so on. I was one of those... oh no! not compulsive kinds but one who used to chat with random people once upon a time.

I cleared my friend list long time back but somehow left out one of them and this I came to know very recently when he- let's just call him X for convenience sake, pinged me. It had been almost five years now and we had a laugh about where we have reached now and how we have changed. Mr. X is an engineer by the way and made total sense whenever we had tete-a-tete. And then out of the blue Mr.X turns out to be the "I want to hear ur voice" kind guy. My refusal ending up in the F word for no reason.Now that was rude :(

All I want to say to you Mr.X is that with this kind of attitude I'm pretty sure you are certainly on the line because either you are dumb as a rock or just said it in the fit pique. But whatever it was this has certainly taught me a lesson. Random people sending friend request should be ignored at least for a while til I'm out of this shock. :P

Another incident which I found extremely rude was when I heard how the bikers or the romeos of hyderabad coming up from behind  and  literally hitting on girls and then coming up and asking how was it! This has been happening to my friends and everyone has been warned but does that mean we avoid going out altogether so that we are safe inside, is that the only choice we have? On second thoughts may be... if you want to be safe and secure stay at home, do the woman's job, look after the family and forget about even talking with other people because he may turn out to be the next Mr. X and bid adieu to the outside world.

Wondering how people can be so mean and not feel at all guilty about it? Guess its in their nature to be that way. Sad world.

p.s Mr. X's: May the fleas of a thousand camels infest your armpits and may your arms be too short to scratch. Thank you.


7 comments:

Paulami said...

yes woman i enjoyed reading it and agreeing to it too. and the fact, nothing can beat your postscript :P

Devaki S said...

ooh la la! here comes the third wave feminist... watch out every one! this girl is not going to take insults lying low... and she can even put the choicest of curses upon you!

Ann said...

;) but don't u thnk dey very well deserve nothin less thn dat!!!

Amropali said...

I second devaki!
I loved the post script!
:D

Abhishek Anchal said...

Anujiiiii... nice presentaion, reflects well about story of common gals, in this So-called CyberWorld.

Ann said...

@anchalji: includes d real world 2 whr v live virtualy :P
@ mango: if u nly liked d post script thn d purpose is lost :(

atkum said...

i like! and i agree with the post script! well written! :) i tell you if i had a chance i would turn around and slap or spit! :P